I shall never be the magnanimous creative person I wish to be. Yet I am hypnotized by the workings of the individual, alone, and am continually using myself as a specimen.”
– Sylvia Plath, The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath.
Kurt Cobain. Nirvana. The Fray. David Bowie. Chestor Bennington. Linkin Park. And now, Billie Eilish.
The Perks of Being a Wallflower. The Catcher in the Rye. Sylvia Plath. Jack Kerouac. And now, Neil Gaiman.
The first paragraph consists of all the musicians/bands who have affected me, inspired me and drove me into a kind of frenzied trance I didn’t think to be possible. Because they are not just musicians. They are storytellers.
They are grunge, they are rock, they are edgy. They are fire, they desire. They start fires, they scream and yell, they tell things no one else tells. They’re hurt, they’re angry, they love, they hate, but mostly they love. And mostly they’re great.
And I am in awe of those people and their voices and their minds, which I try to explore by dissecting their words with my mundane, amateur interpretations. I take up a knife as though to try and chop up what they’ve written, to try and read between the lines, as if I’m looking for a secret code which will open doors to enlightenment. I do not succeed. Because their imagination is beyond the invisible frontiers of mine. If my imagination was a rubber band, it would snap trying to stretch itself too far to try to accommodate their’s. I am a novice when it comes to music and moving people with melodies.
The second paragraph is a list of all the people who have influenced me literarily. Their works/work have deeply entrenched themselves into my heart and have molded me as a reader, as a writer and as a person. I became acquainted with them at the tender age of fourteen or fifteen, a time in our lives when teenage angst is birthed, hot and burning in our bloodstreams, giving us sleepless nights and sinful dreams.
None of their works were even remotely philosophical, but they were charged with enough philosophy to mould the pliant and yielding brain of a teenager.
And now I mourn my love for them.
Because this is not about why I love them, it’s about why I’m writing about them.
When Sylvia Plath was about eight, she published her first poem in a newspaper’s children’s section. She was both talented and hard-working, a deadly combination in the dreary world of literature. She yearned to create something great, to write masterpieces and worked hard to hone her natural talent. She went as far as to give herself pep talks in her private journals which were published posthumously.
I want to write because I have the urge to excel in one medium of translation and expression of life. I can’t be satisfied with the colossal job of merely living.”
-Sylvia Plath, The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath.
She didn’t write because she felt like it. She didn’t create masterpieces out of sheer genius or pure coincidence. She wanted to write masterpieces. She wanted to write.
With the lights out, it’s less dangerous
Here we are now, entertain us
I feel stupid and contagious
Here we are now, entertain us
Kurt Cobain began singing at the age of two and by the time he was four, he could play the piano. On his 14th birthday on February 20, 1981, Cobain’s uncle offered him either a bike or a used guitar—Kurt chose the guitar. Soon, he was trying to copy Led Zeppelin’s power ballad, “Stairway to Heaven”. He was into Punk Rock and he found a fellow punk rock devout in Krist Novoselic and the pair eventually formed what was the beginning of a legacy. Nirvana. The band name was taken from the Buddhist concept, which Cobain described as “freedom from pain, suffering and the external world,” a concept that he aligned with the punk rock ethos and ideology.
Their debut album Bleach sold over 1.9 million copies in the U.S alone and was ranked No. 13 on Rolling Stone’s “50 Greatest Grunge Albums” list.
Anyhow, Kurt died from a self-inflicted bullet wound to the head at the age of 27.
We can only wonder what might have been had he lived. He was iconic, purely because he refused to be iconic, always sensitive but wilfully perverse, rejecting (or attempting to reject) all of the trappings of celebrity and fame. He changed a lot of lives.
I adore both Plath and Kurt. Not because of what people say about them, or what I read about them, but because of the way they make me feel when I read what they’ve written or heard what they’ve said. They are the kind of genius that I wish I could be.
Writing is to me, what music was to Kurt.
It is the only thing I’m remotely good at and the only thing I would go to any lengths to succeed at.
The only way to free myself of these words is to write them.
I write them because I feel. I write to feel. To live, to breathe.
Maybe my posts are just another piece of literature for you. But to me they’re unexpressed feelings and suppressed emotions.
I write them to get them off my chest. To let go of the pain I keep hidden inside. And if you’ve ever been in pain, you might feel mine, seeping out of those words, like tears from the eyelids or blood from wounds…
Writing is not just a passion for me. It’s a way of life. It’s my way of surviving life.
It is everything. “
It is what makes my hair stand on end, it is what gives me the adrenaline rush I crave daily and it is what sets me free.
But I’m nowhere near as good as I want to be.
I’m worse at what I do best
And for this gift I feel blessed
I yearn to be a good writer. No, that is wrong. I yearn to be a great writer. Writing is not something you can simply suffice with being good at. You have to be prominent, exceptional and prodigious. You have to move people with your words, you have to make them feel things, you have inflict pain or joy in them, you have to make them think, you have to make them lose themselves in a world you have spinned out of webs of carefully selected words, weaved together with sincere emotions and characters which have firmly lodged themselves into their hearts, staying with them long after they’ve finished peeking into their lives. They can chose to close the curtain but they cannot stop the light from streaming in through the windows.
That is literature.
And I want to be remembered for it. Just as I have remembered all these people, just as they are always on the back of my mind- like dead relatives, loved but lost, or beautiful moments of the past, gone but never forgotten.
I always wonder if I would’ve been a better writer had i been born earlier, in a different era. Maybe watching Kurt Cobain perform live, or reading Kerouac or Plath as part of my school syllabus would have made me more empathetic to the agony that comes from being ingenious.
Because it does hurt. Great art is birthed from having nursed a great pain. Kurt was depressed and so was Plath. And both of them succumbed to the demons in their head in the cruelest of ways possible.
He wrote, “I don’t have the passion anymore, and so remember, it’s better to burn out than to fade away“, before taking a bullet to his head.
Its better to burn out than to fade away.
And Plath was one of those people who became popular more so for the circumstances surrounding her death than her work. She cooked her head in the oven. Literally.
She’s seen as a martyr to something, although none of us are really clear on what that something is.But she wasn’t a martyr. She was someone who was exhausted and worn down and in a moment of despair took her own life.
Would I consider inflicting pain upon myself in order to get closer to what they’ve felt and become a better writer in the process? Maybe, I don’t know. That’s quite a depressing thought. But I don’t think I’ll hold back from doing anything that will propel me towards being better.
I try relentlessly to come up with ideas which will move and shake the earth, which will convince me of the talent I wish I’d possessed. When people tell me I’m doing a good job, I only smile slightly at their compliments. I’m wincing on the inside, scrutinising every word I’ve typed, criticising the lack of use of a better word, a better idea. It is not easy to be so hard on yourself, but I guess it comes naturally to me.
I won’t ever rest until I love what I write and I don’t think I’ll ever come to love what is written.
I don’t think I possess the innate talent to ever match up to the icons I idolise. But maybe I do.
I know I’m only comparing a seedling to a forest, but I have time and I have the determination and most of all, I have the passion to create something tremendously substantial than myself.
Writing is the only way I know to survive life. Write. Write. Write your heart out, write down your feelings. Catharsis is a good form of therapy. Feelings are what makes humans humane. Engrave your words into the minds and hearts of your readers, make them feel all the things you’ve bottled up inside you all your life. Whisper into their ears whilst they dream at night, give them a peek into the most private chambers of your heart and soul, and in the process, earn a place in their’s.
Leave a legacy behind.
Without Wax,
vodkandcokeplease
Cuz, everything’s better with it 😉
P. S: Nirvana’s hit song Smells Like Teen Spirit could be the title to my biography.